tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14457001.post114731158010088100..comments2024-01-31T09:33:05.146-08:00Comments on Two World Collision: Getting Over The Fear Of FallingErichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03948061964482528393noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14457001.post-1147403209646642772006-05-11T20:06:00.000-07:002006-05-11T20:06:00.000-07:00SQUEE! ;)SQUEE! ;)The Rainbow Zebrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10556423049067122472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14457001.post-1147327102349172562006-05-10T22:58:00.000-07:002006-05-10T22:58:00.000-07:00I know just the feeling your talking about Eric.Th...I know just the feeling your talking about Eric.The anticipation of "Is it him?",the gidiness! It's just a feeling that I feel every human should feel at some point in their life. It's important to try everything at least once, I believe, but with caution. Without caution you could get yourself into so much trouble. <BR/>I got myself into so much trouble when I would have those ONS's. It was not funny business and I just lost track of who and what type of person I am! I believe we all make mistakes and no one is perfect but why should we supress our desires and inhibitions? Why should we when we know it's perfectly natural satisfy our wants and needs? I guess I couldn't stop until I had guidance from a friend who snapped me out of it!<BR/>Now I have a relationship and I'm glad because I'm away from temptation and can concentrate on that "like turned to love".We're doing great so far! <BR/>Congrats on the website by the way!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14457001.post-1147326756704146042006-05-10T22:52:00.000-07:002006-05-10T22:52:00.000-07:00yep, i agree Steve. i also prefer a connection of...yep, i agree Steve. i also prefer a connection of substance - a relationship that can be nurtured.<BR/><BR/>sometimes a person turns to "hook ups" because they are actually wanting something emotional but don't/can't have it. the sad thing about "hook ups" is that it's gotta be done with emotional detachment in order to avoid a feeling of guilt or attachment. so he never wins. <BR/><BR/>how twisted is that?! no wonder there's an emptiness in them.Erichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03948061964482528393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14457001.post-1147319174196270462006-05-10T20:46:00.000-07:002006-05-10T20:46:00.000-07:00There was a day when I saw libido as an enemy, som...There was a day when I saw libido as an enemy, something that had the power to engulf me in compulsion which would whisk me into doing things I'd regret.<BR/><BR/>It turned out that I'm just not built well for sexual enounters without also nurturing a relationship. It's not that I've never dabbled in sexual play solely for the sake of sex, and it's not that dabbling has been bad or hurtful. I'm just happiest when I'm thoughtful, conscious, and a bit on the conservative side.<BR/><BR/>That was a sweet relief. My sexual desire is not a demon or a danger; I can relax and deal with it using good judgment and common sense.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com